When my oldest was born, I swore Barney would have no place in our house. Ever. (I also swore off Disney and the color pink — but that’s another story) Perhaps you made a similar vow against the big purple dinosaur — or maybe there is another children’s program that grates on your nerves! I will confess, I failed (very quickly) on all three counts. My children have all enjoyed the saccharine sweetness of Barney, the mind-numbing Teletubbies and don’t even get me started on Caillou.
Admittedly, there are a lot of annoying things marketed towards children. And it doesn’t get any better as they get older! Our children will definitely have their own tastes! And it really is important to allow them the freedom to express their own opinions — in music and other things.
The trick to developing good taste, however, is to make sure children are exposed to high quality art along with the fluff. Please make sure that when YOU choose a movie, music, book or show for your child, you take the time to consider the quality of what you are giving them. Children who are exposed to great literature and music learn to tell the difference. They will eventually gravitate to art that engages their mind and heart. Imagine a teen who loves Debussy, Dickens or Alfred Hitchcock! It’s not an impossible dream, but it’s up to you to help your child along.
Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!